They say that love intoxicates. This has its own truth. Under the onslaught of flared feelings, a person loses the ability to think rationally and treats what is happening around him a little differently. Take even the opinion of new lovers: at first we tend to idealize them. And everything would be fine, but as soon as passions fade away, doubts arise about the correctness of their choice.
Sometimes you have to go through more than one relationship before you meet the right person. Despite the fact that in this way a person gains experience and learns to understand people, no one will return the time spent. In order not to connect your life with someone who can never become your soulmate, and not to enter into a pre-doomed relationship, you should pay attention to certain signs. They will indicate that the man is not yours.
The couple gradually develops trust. Over time, a man becomes the only person to whom we are ready to fully open up. It is important to be able to show your true face, share thoughts and feelings. And not accepting a partner for who they are has nothing to do with love. Moreover, reproaches and accusations are unacceptable, since they force you to hide real feelings.
Difficulties in communication
It is not necessary to share the interests and views of each other. Everyone has their own and they must be reckoned with. But it is important to find common themes. Communication with the person with whom you intend to spend your whole life should be free, easy, and not cause heaviness and discomfort.
Women are much more sensitive and emotional than men. We need constant giving and so feel desirable, but the opposite sex is arranged a little differently. They won the lady they liked and calmed down, forgot about all the courtship and other manifestations characteristic of the candy-bouquet period.
Every day we get to know our partners better and learn more information about them. But, if you notice that even after several months of communication you know negligibly little about a man and are not familiar with anyone from his environment, you need to think about it. Either he is not considering you for a serious relationship or is hiding something.
Incompatibility in sex
Intimacy is one of the main components of a happy life together. If there are problems in this regard, it is difficult to achieve harmony in a couple. Due to dissatisfaction, an imbalance arises and the atmosphere in the relationship leaves much to be desired. Irritability, irascibility, quarrels, scandals appear.
It’s hard to be happy when dating a pessimist. Constant discontent, indignation, criticism, anger strike like parasites. Under the influence of such people, you involuntarily begin to see the world in shades of gray. Miserly men by nature will never change. Time in this case will only exacerbate the problem, their character will become harder. Then relatives are at risk of getting under the distribution.
Relationships are about two people. Partners should think not only about themselves, but also about the needs, needs, desires of each other. Moreover, it is generally believed that ensuring a comfortable life for a woman falls on the shoulders of her chosen one. Therefore, the lack of support, interest in what is happening in the life of a couple, help in solving problems and removal are bad traits for a future husband.
If a loved one annoys you, this is a clear wake-up call. Focus, are there any traits, habits and views of a partner that seem unacceptable to you? The fact is that these contradictions in the future can cause hostility and become causes of quarrels.
A man in love seeks to spend every free minute with his woman. He will always find time to answer SMS, call and will not linger at work, walking with friends, in the gym for no good reason. Otherwise, you will always be in the background.
Can’t see the future
Usually, already at the beginning of a relationship, we fantasize about what the wedding will be like and how many children we will give birth to our beloved. But our ideas are not always shared by men. Then problems arise. It is necessary from the very beginning to learn about the views, plans for life and goals of the beloved. Do they match yours?
Tends to disregard principles
For the sake of loved ones, we are ready to sacrifice a lot. However, this list should not include principles – they cannot be changed. Changes in behavior, habits are acceptable, and then not to please the partner, but to improve. You must be accepted for who you are. If they demand to revise fundamental attitudes, that is, views on life, this is not love.
Don’t want to get married
The most obvious sign that you have nothing more to do together is your unwillingness to get married. We exclude cases when this is a principled position that applies to everyone. Here, the actual lack of desire to go to the registry office with a specific person.